Alumni Spotlight: Larry ('10)
and Patti ('81) Appleby
- Pastor of Stoney
Mountain Baptist Church in Hendersonville, NC
- Founder of Women of the Well International Ministries, Inc.
It
is an honor to share with you part of God’s work in our lives. Please
know that we pray regularly for the alumni of Trinity Baptist College
as you continue faithfully to impact your world for Jesus Christ, often
in quiet places without public accolades or awards. We are grateful for
the friendships we have enjoyed with so many of you over the years. How
good God has been to allow our paths to cross.
FAMILY
We begin with a personal note on our
family, and tell you simply that God’s reputation for faithfulness
cannot be overstated. We have been married for 38 years now, and find
more joy today in our covenant relationship than ever before. Our
children, Matt, Brandon, and Blake (and his sweet wife, Meredith), each
have a heart for God, and are using their gifts by serving Him through
various ministry opportunities. We have no greater joy than to hear
that our children walk in truth.
Above all, we praise the Lord for saving
us, and remain grateful for our own parents who were all involved
intentionally in evangelism and world missions through their local
churches. Because of God’s grace, the consistency of their influence,
and their prayers for our generation, we both surrendered our lives to
God and to His call to serve Him as young adults. We then labored for
Him in Jacksonville for thirty years, primarily through the ministries
of Trinity Baptist Church and College. In 2008, God called us to Stoney
Mountain Baptist Church in Hendersonville, NC. Looking back at our 38
years of marriage and ministry, we are confident that God uniquely
prepared us for this season, and we are enjoying every opportunity He
affords us to serve Him with this body of believers.
INTERNATIONAL MISSION
God is on a mission for the world to know
Christ. It is His mission, and He has made it ours. We are co-laborers
with God. For many years, we served God with the knowledge of these
truths. However, after nearly thirty years in our own Jerusalem and two
years prior to our move to NC, these realities took on fresh meaning as
God burdened our hearts to found Women of the Well International
Ministries, Inc. We have been asked specifically to share this part
of our ministry journey with you. Now in its eighth year, the most
frequently asked questions about WOTW are still who, what,
when, where, and why.
Who?
Women of the Well International
Ministries, Inc. is a non-profit (501c3), local church centered,
Baptist missionary organization that assists missionaries, national
pastors, and local New Testament churches in their endeavors to spread
the Gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ to those primarily in
restricted-access regions of the world. Internationally, WOTW
operates only at the invitation and under the authority of veteran
missionaries or national pastors on site. Organizationally, we are
governed by a stateside board of godly directors and an advisory board
of supportive pastors. Our annual ministry teams are formed from a
growing network of volunteers from like-minded local churches.
What?
Without question, the primary focus of
WOTW is evangelism. Year after year, we continue to marvel at the
doors God supernaturally opens for our evangelistic efforts. Since
2006, we have seen thousands reached through evangelistic crusades and
vacation Bible schools in remote regions, but we believe the greatest
harvest may yet come from the creative duplication, importing, and
distribution of God’s Word. Our secondary focus is to equip and
encourage nationals who are zealous regarding their own responsibility
to reach their generation in their regions for Christ. Among the
highest privileges God has granted to us in these eight years has been
to labor with those behind doors closed to the Gospel, and to equip and
provide resources for many who regularly suffer for Jesus’ sake. These
men, women, and children are truly quintessential servants of God, who
often, without any bravado, lose all in this life but Christ.
When? Where?
God has now allowed WOTW to complete
more than three dozen international mission endeavors and more than one
hundred stateside meetings. We have been privileged to serve with our
Lord in Africa, Asia, Central and North America, Europe, and the Middle
East, often alongside members of His persecuted church. God
consistently opens doors for WOTW to serve among
Muslim women (the descendants of Hagar who was the first notable woman
in Scripture who encountered the Son of God at a well). It is estimated
that there are one billion Muslim women world-wide today. Grievously,
we report that most of these lost souls are taught that no Savior would
die for the worthless soul of a woman. It is untenable, but it does not
prevent the Light of the glorious Gospel of God’s Son from piercing
this grave darkness, one soul at a time.
Why?
Why Women of the Well? Because of the call?
Because of the count of those who have never heard the saving Name of
Jesus (nor know anyone else who has)? Because of the crisis of women
and children in cultures where societal restraints prevent men who do
know Christ from sharing the Gospel with them? Because of the cost of
the Church’s disobedience? Because of the outright disregard for the
sobering reality that lost heathen women and children (of accountable
age) still go to Hell, and Hell is still forever? The greatest
motivation for reaching these souls is actually none of these. WOTW
exists because our Lord Jesus Christ, our Crucified Savior and the
Risen Lamb of God, is worthy of souls from every kindred, nation,
tribe, and tongue.
Without acrimony, we boldly cry out that
Jesus is worthy of ALL souls throughout the Uttermost, including the
souls of disenfranchised women and children who wait for the Gospel to
reach them.
Why? Why now? Why there? Why women? Why another unconventional,
cross-cultural, even counter-cultural international ministry in our
day? We do not know the significance that WOTW plays in God’s
divine scheme for providing access to the good news of salvation to
lost souls. Obedience does not require our knowing. For reasons known
only to God, He still uses the unlikely to accomplish the work of the
Almighty. It is no anomaly. God birthed WOTW in this generation
to be another Great Commission connection into the Uttermost.
Aren’t we each glad that God never asks any
of us to do the impossible on our own? He offers overwhelming
challenges with underwhelming resources to not one of us. He does not
require that we impress Him with our feasibility studies, or satisfy
Him with our well-devised, well-funded strategies. He simply wants what
we have, all of it, in every season of life and ministry, without the
cacophony of our litany of complaints and excuses.
WHEN GOD CHANGES YOUR COURSE
Our final thoughts are directed primarily
to any of the alumni who are facing your own changing seasons of
ministry. Is God up to something new in your life, even though you have
reminded Him that you are quite comfortable with the familiar routine
of the old? Maybe you are wondering where God is taking you in your
next season. Maybe you are asking Him when you will get His direction,
or how will He ever provide? Whenever God engineers the circumstances
of a new season of life or ministry, the most critical questions may
not be those of where, or when, or how. The greatest insight into His
dealings with us may be found in the wisdom of why. (Isaiah 43:18-19
and Philippians 1:12.)
After serving God for over thirty years in
one place, we can now speak candidly to the realities of uprooting and
(seemingly) starting over. At first, we did not realize that our God
was up to something new, or that His agenda was perfect, unlike our
own. With deeper faith, we see more clearly today. Although certainly
not the epitome of successful service, we can sum up four of the many
lessons that God has taught us in the challenging, changing seasons of
our lives. We trust these thoughts will encourage someone with a
similar need.
If you are facing a season of great change,
first, (recall and then quickly) release any regrets. Face
regrets honestly. Restore broken fellowship with God by surrendering
any attitude of entitlement. If needed, be willing to make restitution.
Forgive others freely. Regrets can best be forgotten by remembering
them forgiven. Biblically, we can be released from the depths and the
debts of each of our regrets. Secondly, beware of bitterness.
Bitterness is not a tree from which we can shake off the leaves or trim
the limbs. The only way to deal biblically with bitterness is by
acknowledging that it is the consequence of our failure to appropriate
the grace of God. This failure always results in a root deeply planted
that inevitably springs up. When we purposefully take the Axe of God’s
Word to every root of bitterness in our lives, the Spirit of our God
helps us get unfinished business of our past done while there is still
time. How sweet to enter His presence with nothing undone, nothing
between. Thirdly, celebrate the changes God makes through His
grace. His promise is for a new thing. When we allow God to do His best
work in us, it is truly a season of “out with the old, and in with the
new.” Finally, practice private worship daily and marvel at His
miracles. Every directive of God comes with a sufficient supply of
Himself. New grace, fresh faith, and a course of unhindered obedience
all birthed in the secret place of His presence makes the next, new
season of life and ministry one of unexpected, even incalculable
miracles.
Changing seasons in our lives or ministries
may never make sense to us or those who look on from the outside. In
ignorance or with limited information, even well-meaning friends may
criticize or even ostracize us. Tell the truth to whom the truth is
due. Is it not enough that God knows? The Judge of all the earth will
do right. Until that day, we must all continue to find our expectation
in our unchanging God. As He said, He will faithfully make a way in our
every wilderness, and provide rivers in our every desert.
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